Monday, January 30, 2017

From Ashes of Pity into Beauty of Purpose Kindle Edition

Tuesday, January 24, 2017

Dancing through the Storms 365 Day Devotional: Surviving the Loss of a Child

Hi everyone,

As many of you know I lost my beautiful butterfly girl Ashley to AIDS in 2013. I am currently working on a devotional to help grieving parents like myself.. 'Dancing through the Storms 365 Devotional: Surviving the Loss of a Child' takes you on a daily journey of healing and hope.

I want to share January & February devotionals with anyone who needs healing and hope. Just email me @ or contact me through FB. Hugs.



Thursday, January 19, 2017

From Ashes of Pity into Beauty of Purpose available on Amazon Kindle

Saturday, January 14, 2017

From Ashes of Pity into Beauty of Purpose eBook Release

 New Harbor Press, January 2017

It's here. You can download my eBook for only $7.99.

On November 4th, 1977 at the age of 16 my life changed forever. In August of 1977 I met a man who was 10 year older than me. He was into drugs and got me hooked. My mother was an alcoholic and did not care what I did, so I moved in with this guy, got hooked on drugs, and got pregnant. Part of my story is blurry, but I remember somehow I wound up back with my mom who lost custody of me and I was forced into a group home and was forced to have an abortion at 9 weeks pregnant. This book is not about my abortion, but how God took me out of ashes into beauty. It's about women who are struggling with guilt after an abortion. it's about women who are struggling within themselves with any type of pain or grief of the past.


Every day of every second a woman has an abortion. Every day of every second a woman has to live with the emotional turmoil of her decision. Forty years ago at the age of sixteen Debra had an abortion changing her forever. 

From Ashes of Pity into Beauty of Purpose brings an emotionally charred women out of the pits of fire, through the ashes into the beauty of purpose. With the direction of God, hurting women weather through the painful journeys, become women of spiritual beauty, find God's purpose, and learn to live again.

My hope is this book will help other hurting women who have struggled or are struggling with grief or anger of post-abortion.

You can purchase a copy at the following websites. 

Wednesday, January 11, 2017

A New Devotional in the Works

Many of you know my story. Just after Mothers Day 2013 I lost by youngest daughter to an AIDS related illness. What most of you do not know is that I struggled to get out of the darkness after her death. I felt hopeless and dead. It took me several years to get past my torment. I have shared my story in several anthologies, but I also wanted to create a devotional for other grieving parents.

Dancing through the Storms 365 Day Devotional: Surviving the Loss of a Child takes you on a daily journey of healing and hope.

The book should be released in March or April.

Here is a sample:


There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens: a time to be born and a time to die, a time to plant and a time to uproot, a time to kill and a time to heal, a time to tear down and a time to build, a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance, a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them, a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing, a time to search and a time to give up, a time to keep and a time to throw away, a time to tear and a time to mend, a time to be silent and a time to speak, a time to love and a time to hate, a time for war and a time for peace. Ecclesiastes 3:1-8 NIV

Time is supposed to heal all wounds. When you lose a child, time stands still. It cannot be turned back or erased. The wounds of pain cannot heal. When I lost my daughter on Memorial Day 2013, it was my worst nightmare. I wanted to hide away from the world, I even contemplated suicide. My baby girl was gone. My wounds of pain cut too deep to heal. I was broken. It is in the brokenness of loss, that the Lord wants us to renew our souls and hearts.

January brings change and new beginnings. We have thirty-one days of time to be born with renewed hope, time to plant restored faith, time to heal old wounds, time to build new attitudes, time to laugh again, time to dance in the rain, time to scatter the stones of anger, time to embrace loss, time to search within our soul, time to throw away our sorrow, time to mend our hurt, time to speak with love, time to love ourselves, and a time for peace.

During the month of January, take time to renew your soul and heal your heart. Each devotional this month guides you through a spiritual renewal to find peace and heal the wounds of losing your child. Take time to meditate on the words and let the Lord be your strength and solace.

Lord, my wounds of pain cut my soul and heart into tiny shards that cannot heal. Give me strength to renew my soul and heal my heart. With your guidance Lord, I will get through the pain and let time heal my wounds of losing my child. Amen.

My prayer for you, as it is with me; is that the Lord heals your broken soul and revives your hurting heart.



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